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A private 30-minute call to see whether our program is right for you.

What we help you overcome

Painful sex and pelvic floor dysfunction

After a baby. After something that happened to you. After endometriosis or endo surgery. With anxiety, or a strict upbringing where nobody talked about any of this. Or for no reason anyone has ever been able to give you. It doesn’t matter how many years it’s been or how many providers you’ve sat in front of. If it still hurts, we haven’t started where the problem actually lives.

Vulvodynia, vestibulodynia, and pain no one has been able to diagnose

Vulvodynia, vestibulodynia, or pain that never got a name. Every exam came back normal. You were told to relax, use more lube, have a glass of wine first. You did all of that. It still hurts. That’s not in your head. It’s your nervous system, and nobody looked there.

Trying to start a family when sex isn't possible.

Maybe you’ve put off trying. Maybe you’re trying and it hurts. Maybe you’re going through IVF and still can’t be intimate with your husband. Either way, the sex that’s supposed to come with starting a family has been taken from you. I want to give you that back.

Not trusting your own body anymore.

Painful sex, vaginismus (when your body clamps shut at any entry, even a tampon), prolapse, leaking, what changed after the baby, never being able to finish. And the way all of that makes you skip the gym, dread the pelvic exam, avoid dating, and go into sex already braced for it to go wrong. I want you to feel like your body is yours again.

The distance it's put between you and your partner.

When sex hurts, or you don’t feel anything, or it’s been so long you can’t remember the last time, intimacy becomes the thing you avoid. And the avoiding is what does the damage. He thinks it’s him. You think it’s you. Neither of you is talking about it. It’s not you, and it’s not him. It’s a body that learned to guard, and that can be retrained. I work with you, and if you want, I’ll bring your partner in too.

Dr. Hope L. Hayes holding anatomical pelvic models

Why Work With Hope For Your Pelvis

At Hope For Your Pelvis, we start with your nervous system. Most pelvic floor practitioners start with the muscles. We start with what controls the muscles, because that’s the piece almost nobody has addressed, and it’s why women who’ve already tried everything get results. It’s why 94% of the women who finish my program reach the goal they came in with.

If you’re ready to stop planning your life around pain and start having sex that feels safe, comfortable, and fully yours, book your free consult today!

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Hope For Your Pelvis provides education and coaching services. This consultation is not a medical appointment, and nothing on this page is intended as medical advice, diagnosis, or a substitute for care from your own provider.